I'm So

Done!

have you said something like that?

 It IS possible to get on top of this, take control of your emotions and live with authentic power.

And I’m going to help you.

You’ve Suffered Narcissistic Abuse and Ongoing Post Separation Abuse.

Every alert feels like an electric shock. ⚡️⚡️⚡️
Emotionally, you’re tossed
around like a cat toy. 

Communicate powerfully & navigate the system with someone who's been through it and come out stronger.

COMMUNICATION

Conflict

Overcome the beliefs, behaviors and patterns that got you here.

COACHING

Core 

Your first step to changing your life and finally getting some relief.

CONSULTATION

Strategic

choose one

Not long ago, I was right where you are. Emotionally drowning in a sea of confusion, frustration and, no matter how hard I tried, nothing ever made a lasting improvement. I was in agony and would wonder what would happen to my kids if one morning I just didn’t wake up. 

You see, it all started with a decision. Doesn’t it always? You’re going to make a decision in minute if you haven’t already. You can book your Strategic Consultation or keep doing the same thing and getting the same painful, frustrating, soul-crushing results. 

Change may be HARD; staying unchanged is HARDER, because it’s HOPELESS… There is HOPE, and I’ll HELP.

Your      Mama

Wise

-A.J., Metro Detroit, MI

Game Changer !

Speaking with Shalom has been a game changer for my healing journey. She is a great support and I treasure her advice & suggestions. I have known Shalom for over a year now and she has been such a savior to me. I speak with Shalom daily, and she helps me navigate this crazy world of sharing a child with a narcissist. Shalom has always made the time and held space for me and offered a listening ear along with lots of great advice and guidance. She has been my calm & support amidst many storms.

D.J., -California, usa

I was a hot mess!

Over the past 4 years she has provided excellent wisdom, healthy boundaries and outstanding communication.  She has led by example in her communication with me, and many times would drop what she was doing to help me communicate with my daughter’s dad. With her loving help she has helped transform me into a confident narc survivor and mother. I’m always bragging to people that I have the best support system right here in my pocket and it means more than the world to me.
She is a woman of action, intelligence, humor, honesty and integrity.
She has been like the sister I never had but always wanted, willing to give it to me straight and not coddle me, which I appreciate.  She will have a special place in my heart.  
Shalom will always be a blessing to anyone in her path.

Shalom is someone you want on your team.!

In one of the darkest stages of my life, I would constantly seeking advice in the grips of my abuse. She and I became close rather quickly with her thoughtful advice and helpful guidance. She is a woman of integrity, abundance and is always thinking of how to help others. 

She is someone I admire tremendously and aim to be like one day. Her strength and courage in overcoming narcissist abuse is tremendous and she is now currently mentoring so many other people who are struggling with this painful and harrowing cycle despite being a full time mother and grandmother herself. 

Shalom is someone you want on your team. She is team player and loves to serve others with her experiences and comes from a place of unconditional love and concern for others. With Shalom’s help I have been able to calm down and think about what is triggering my emotions. Instead of reacting out of anger, I know can apply the tools and wisdom she has taught me over the years in my recovery. She’s an amazing mother, person & friend. 

The Post Separation Abuse Workbook will help you identify all the areas that you've been experiencing abuse and didn't even know it.
 
  • Post Separation Abuse Wheel
  • Journaling Prompts
  • Action Steps To Move Forward
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