Me

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$2000 / month

stop reacting, start responding

Conflict Communication 

  •  4 weekly Zoom sessions 
  • Voxer access 24/7 with 24 hour weekday turnaround 

Learn to Strategically Communicate (including Documentation) with a High Conflict Person (HCP) with someone whose been through it and come out stronger, wiser and now able to teach fellow survivors.

This is a “high touch” service designed to train and empower you to communicate with the HCP by having me in your pocket. Isn’t everything less scary if you have someone with you?

Along with your weekly 50 minute sessions, you’ll have access to me through Voxer messaging for support with reading, drafting, editing, refining messages to the HCP with a 24 hour (or less) turnaround Monday through Friday. 

You’ll develop skills to determine if, when and how to communicate with the HCP. With my expertise and guidance, you’ll learn to emotionally disengage, thoughtfully respond instead of react, expertly craft communication that is much less easily twisted and weaponized…and it will present very well if it’s read in court.


-A.J., Metro Detroit, MI

Game Changer !

Speaking with Shalom has been a game changer for my healing journey. She is a great support and I treasure her advice & suggestions. I have known Shalom for over a year now and she has been such a savior to me. I speak with Shalom daily, and she helps me navigate this crazy world of sharing a child with a narcissist. Shalom has always made the time and held space for me and offered a listening ear along with lots of great advice and guidance. She has been my calm & support amidst many storms.

D.J., -California, usa

I was a hot mess!

Over the past 4 years she has provided excellent wisdom, healthy boundaries and outstanding communication.  She has led by example in her communication with me, and many times would drop what she was doing to help me communicate with my daughter’s dad. With her loving help she has helped transform me into a confident narc survivor and mother. I’m always bragging to people that I have the best support system right here in my pocket and it means more than the world to me.
She is a woman of action, intelligence, humor, honesty and integrity.
She has been like the sister I never had but always wanted, willing to give it to me straight and not coddle me, which I appreciate.  She will have a special place in my heart.  
Shalom will always be a blessing to anyone in her path.

Shalom is someone you want on your team.!

In one of the darkest stages of my life, I would constantly seeking advice in the grips of my abuse. She and I became close rather quickly with her thoughtful advice and helpful guidance. She is a woman of integrity, abundance and is always thinking of how to help others. 

She is someone I admire tremendously and aim to be like one day. Her strength and courage in overcoming narcissist abuse is tremendous and she is now currently mentoring so many other people who are struggling with this painful and harrowing cycle despite being a full time mother and grandmother herself. 

Shalom is someone you want on your team. She is team player and loves to serve others with her experiences and comes from a place of unconditional love and concern for others. With Shalom’s help I have been able to calm down and think about what is triggering my emotions. Instead of reacting out of anger, I know can apply the tools and wisdom she has taught me over the years in my recovery. She’s an amazing mother, person & friend. 

Frequently Asked Questions

Weekly sessions included in the various packages are 50 minutes.

how long are your coaching calls?

My coaching style can be described as maternal, empathetic, direct yet kind. I’m often the “mom” of my friend groups offering wisdom, insight and solutions.

WHAT IS YOUR COACHING STYLE?

Refunds are at the sole discretion of Heart Guardener LLC. 

DO YOU HAVE A REFUND POLICY?

Payment plans are offered for the Core Coaching Packages: 2 payments of $1500 for the 3 month package OR 4 payments of $1400 for the 6 month package. First payment due within 3 days of agreement to begin sessions and additional payments due in 30 days for 3 month package and every 30 days until paid in full for the 6 month package.
Payment for Strategic Consultation and Conflict Communication are due upon scheduling. 

DO YOU HAVE A PAYMENT PLAN?

Hi! I'M SHALOM, A HIGH CONFLICT DIVORCE & CO-PARENTING CONSULTANT AND LIFE COACH.

Meet Your Coach

Not long ago, I was right where you are. I was confused, hopeless and discouraged, and like you, I felt stuck. 

Getting where I am now took a lot of education, effort and energy.

My intention is to abbreviate that process for you by coming alongside you. Allow me to share my experience, wisdom and encouragement to guide you into a place of confidence and strength.

LET'S DO IT!

Let’s not put this off a moment longer. Just because you haven’t figured out the solution, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. It does! And together, we will find it, put into action and make sure the cycle is broken once and for all.

Your best life yet...